Chic and soothing bluish gray paint shades for a trendy and relaxing home


Blue grays are especially popular for bedrooms, since blues help you get the best night’s sleep, followed very closely by gray. And, they work for most rooms of the home, especially living rooms, dining rooms, bathrooms and even kitchens (if you have white cabinets).
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What is blue gray paint color? What does that really mean?

The best way to do this is show them color swatches and have them react. Did they mean something like this, or did they want something more blue or more gray (or lighter or darker).
For that reason, I’m going to share a wide range of blue grays – ones that are more gray, ones that are more blue, lighter ones and darker ones. i want to stress that there is no wrong answer here…it’s more a matter of what you prefer. All of these colors can work pending on your style and purpose. And, don’t forget that some of these colors can be used as accent walls (rather than all four walls. The world is your oyster.
What are the most popular blue gray paints colors?
1. Icy by Sherwin Williams

Would you like to see this color in your own home? If so, you can get a sample here.
2. Flower Box by Benjamin Moore

Would you like to see this color in your own room? If so, you can get a sample here.
3. Thundercloud by Behr

4. North Star by Sherwin Williams

You can find a sample here.
5. Granite Peak by Sherwin Williams

Grab a sample here.
6. Comet by Benjamin Moore

You can find a sample here.
7. Bachelor Blue by Benjamin Moore

Would you like to see this color in your own lighting? If so, you can find a sample here.

Paint Samples
Now, let’s talk about samples…
It’s always best to test the paint colors in you own home and own lighting. The colors do look different pending your lighting and can even look different room to room.
You can definitely go to your local painting store to buy some samples (and a brush…be sure to paint with 2 coats), but I have a MUCH EASIER way for you. Check out SAMPLIZE.
Samplize offers 12” x 12” peel and stick paint samples that are EASIER, AFFORDABLE and more ENVIRONMENTALLY FRIENDLY.
Here are a few reasons why I recommend Samplize to my clients:
- Samples come right to YOUR DOORSTEP in 1-3 business days, pending on location
- At $5.95, they’re more affordable than the samples/brushes/foam boards than traditional samples…and of course easier and way less messy
- If you keep the samples on the white paper, you can move them from wall to wall and room to room
They are amazingly accurate as they are made with 2 coats of real paint, so they are color correct.
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8. Dockside Blue by Sherwin Williams

Would you like to see this color in your own home? If so, you can get a sample here.
9. Sterling by Benjamin Moore

10. Upward by Sherwin Williams

Upward (SW6239) is a very subtle gray blue. In fact, you barely notice the blue. You’ll see that as you move down the color strip, the blue becomes more saturated and noticeable..In the below picture, this color looks bluer than it usually does.
You can get a sample here if you’d like to see it in your own home.
11. Windy Blue by Sherwin Williams

Would you like to see Windy Blue in your own room? If so, you can get a sample here.
12. Aleutian by Sherwin Williams

You can get a sample here.
13. Daphne by Sherwin Williams

Would you like to see this color in your own room? If so, you can get a sample here.
14. Bracing Blue by Sherwin Williams

You can find a sample here.
Before I cover the final 7 bluish gray paint colors, I wanted to share a VERY helpful video from Sherwin Williams, with some quick and super useful DIY painting tips. It’s just 2 minutes and covers types of brushes and painting techniques. Also, at the end of this article, I share the painting tools and accessories that we use (with links to buy them on Amazon).
Sherwin Williams and Pottery Barn Painting tips for DIY homeowners
15. Stillwater by Benjamin Moore

16. Morning Fog by Sherwin Williams

You can find a sample here so that you can see it in your own room.
17. Manor Blue by Benjamin Moore

Would you like to see this color in your own home? If so, you can get a sample here.
18. Krypton by Sherwin Williams

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19. Mineral Alloy by Benjamin Moore

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20. Tranquil Pond by Behr

21. Gentle Gray by Benjamin Moore

Would you like to see this color in your own room? If so, you can get a sample here.
Best blue grays from Sherwin Williams
Here’s a recap of my favorite blue grays from Sherwin Williams:
Icy
- Upward
- Windy Blue
- Aleutian
- Daphne
- Bracing Blue
- Dockside Blue
- North Star
- Krypton
- Granite Peak
- Morning Fog
Paint Samples
Now, let’s talk about samples…
It’s always best to test the paint colors in you own home and own lighting. The colors do look different pending your lighting and can even look different room to room.
You can definitely go to your local painting store to buy some samples (and a brush…be sure to paint with 2 coats), but I have a MUCH EASIER way for you. Check out SAMPLIZE.
Samplize offers 12” x 12” peel and stick paint samples that are EASIER, AFFORDABLE and more ENVIRONMENTALLY FRIENDLY.
Here are a few reasons why I recommend Samplize to my clients:
- Samples come right to YOUR DOORSTEP in 1-3 business days, pending on location
- At $5.95, they’re more affordable than the samples/brushes/foam boards than traditional samples…and of course easier and way less messy
- If you keep the samples on the white paper, you can move them from wall to wall and room to room
They are amazingly accurate as they are made with 2 coats of real paint, so they are color correct.
Visit the SAMPLIZE website HERE.
Best blue grays from Benjamin Moore
Flower Box
- Comet
- Bachelor Blue
- Sterling
- Stillwater
- Gentle Gray
- Mineral Alloy
- Manor Blue
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Blue grays from Behr

- Thundercloud (S520-5)
- Tranquil Pond (PPU15-07)
Frequently asked questions on Bluish gray paint colors
Do gray and blue go together?
Usually, they do. In general, most gray paint colors are cool toned and most blues are also cool toned, so they usually work well together. Now, I’m oversimplifying a bit as there is a range of grays and some are warmer than others. And, there are a range of blues with different undertones (some have greener and aqua undertones), others have purples and others have gray undertones.
But, usually, most blues and most grays work well together and this even holds for lighter blues and darker navy shades, as well as lighter and darker shades of gray.
What goes well with blue gray paint?
Often other blues (including navy) and most grays work well with bluish grays. Certain greens and purples also play well with blue gray paint colors. And, of course whites always work well. For base molding and trim, choose white whites, rather than creamy or warm white tones (see best white paint shades for trim).
Both dark and light floors (especially hardwood) look great bluish grays. For carpeting, creams work very well, as do blues and grays.
What accent colors go with blue gray walls?
If you’re looking for a a bright accent color to contrast with your gray blue walls, consider warm accent colors. Many dusty roses, pinks, fuscias, and even lavenders will work well. Also, soft warm oranges, golds and yellow will add some warmth. Some reds can work, but you need to be rather careful with these. Orangish-yellowish colors are much easier to contrast as they are more complementary on the color wheel.
How can accents be used? I love to accent colors on throw pillows, blankets, area rugs, wall art, accent pieces on coffee tables and occasionally for a small piece of the wall (e.g. book shelves, nooks/insets, in between shelving. Often a large accent wall can be too overpowering for a room with one of these bright pop colors.
Is it blue gray a cool color?
Absolutely. Grays are cool colors and blues are cool colors, so the combo of these 2 cool tones results in cool color.
Is it blue gray or blue grey?
Both are correct. Grey is the British English spelling and gray is the American English spelling. So, both are technically correct, but pending on where you live, one may be preferred over the other and you will see differences in labeling from the manufacturers in different countries. Some people call the color bluish gray and others grayish blue. Some call it dusty blue. While the spelling may be slightly different, the meaning is the same.
Helpful tools if you are going to paint yourself

- Painting brush – this one costs a bit more, but it’s totally worth it. It will help you paint faster and more accurately. If you’re going to paint yourself, don’t skimp here. Incidentally, this is Amazon’s Choice as well.
- Painter’s tape – a must have. Use for all the trim as well as ceiling area
- Paint roller kit – this includes a tray. Use the brush for the edges and the roller for main areas of the wall (and ceiling).
- Drop cloths – Yes, you’ll need them for sure. Some people have some on hand, but often not enough if you are doing many rooms.
Do you need any paint shade fan decks?
Amazon can help with that. It’s so much easier when you have the full color wheels and can see all of these in your own home (vs. going back and forth to the store MULTIPLE times).
Sherwin Williams Benjamin Moore
Final thoughts on blue grays
As you can see, there’s a wide range of paint shades when it comes to blue grays. I love this color combo because it combines two of my favorite colors – blues and grays. Different people have different expectations when they say blue gray…or gray blue. Hopefully, you can find at least 1 bluish gray that love…because that’s all you’ll ever need.
Related painting articles:
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- 11 Awesome cool gray paint shades
- The 9 best warm gray and greige paint shades
- The 5 best colors for bedrooms
- The best white for base molding and trim colors
Get The PDF
I have everything that you need is here in this article. But it is a long read. If it’s more convenient, you can purchase the PDF file for only $5. It has the full article (including pictures). This way you can print it out and will be available for you to refer to anytime you want. (Click on the book below to purchase)
I would love to give it to you for free, but it cost money to have an online store and it’s expensive to maintain a blog. I would love your support so I can continue to help those who need it.
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Flower Box




Love the selection and range here. Do darker accent walls work in small spaces to help define areas? Or is it better to go for a light shade throughout in a studio or small 1 BR?
Antonia – yes, I love some of the mid to darker blues, too. But, if you have a small apartment, I’d gravitate towards 1 color and slightly lighter. If you go too dark, it will make your space look too small.
Would you keep the trim and doors a simple white color for most of these paints or would you try for a very, very light blue tint?
Ruthmarie – I would definitely do white trim with these paint colors. It looks much cleaner and more upscale vs. tinting it blue. (And, yes, I’ve seen them done both ways). And, a white white is best for blue shades (rather than an off white).
Thank you for the response. I like the idea of white trim as well. I have something of a followup question regarding white paint. When you say white, do you mean a hard bright white, or something a bit softer? There are so many variations on white.
I really love the look of these paint colors from Sherwin Williams and Benjamin Moore. I know that they are good quality paints, but was wondering if there are some basic differences between the brands.
Grace – So glad you love them, too. Both Benjamin Moore and Sherwin Williams have great paints, so you can’t go wrong with either. They each have different grades, too. The good news is that you can get these colors at either store and they have the formula cards for each others’ paints (as well as most for Behr).
When you paint the kitchen, what type of paint do you suggest. I really like that flat matte look, but I would think it would make the walls harder to keep clean. Is it better to settle for a low gloss/eggshell for areas like kitchens?
Ruth – I think eggshell or shinier looks tacky and dated. Instead, you should upgrade the paint. If you’re using Benjamin Moore, use their kitchen and bath paint. If you’re using Sherwin Williams, then use Duration. Both are wipeable. I would probably do a matte finish in there, and by upgrading you won’t have a trade-off on cleaning vs looks.
Hi, I am hoping you can point me in the right direction. Our family room has light wood floor, cathedral ceilings, 14×18 and one full wall has a 6ft wide floor to ceiling gray stone fireplace. I currently have a deep red, burgundy color on that as an accent and the 3 other walls are a khaki color. I want to change the red to Window Screen 4004-4a by Valspar and the other 3 walls maybe Tempered Gray 4004-1a. I am not sure and was hoping for your input
Donna – Let me know if you want to set up a design consultation and you can send me some pictures. Please use the contact form. It’s impossible for me to help you without seeing this.
We’ve gone for a lovely shade of grey on the feature wall in our living room. The other walls are white and they are a huge hit with any visitors we have in our home. Thanks for highlighting all the latest ideas and tips here.
Question: Would you make the floor a shade of gray too? Or should we stay with the light brown wooden floors that we now have? Wish I could add a photo here.
Joleisa – So glad you’re happy with you paint colors. No, I would not do gray floors with gray wall…that would be too much gray and take away from the walls that are working for you. I would either do a form of brown or else natural with Bona Traffic so you don’t have yellow on the floors.
What color carpet would you pick with the flower box blue in a family room?
I would try a gray, greige, beige or cream. (Cream may get dirty quickly if the room has heavy traffic and/or you occasionally eat in there.
Okay, now we are looking at one of your favorite blue/greys, Icy or Windy Blue. This is for paneling! Now what color carpet & type of paint?
We haven’t done anything to this room since 1996! Help!!!
My hall bathroom has a warm tan tile that goes up the wall halfway. However, I have switched my colors to a greige pallet. I used revere pewter be Benjamin Moore. Is there a blue that will go with the warm tan AND greige.
Patricia – Oh yes, blues are opposite on the color wheel from tan, so most will work. My Benjamin Moore swatches are in the car, but w/ Sherwin Williams, Upward and Mild Blue should work well. Mild Blue in SW is almost the same as Misty Blue in Benjamin Moore. I hope that helps.
Hello! I was wondering if you knew what color matched the example at the top where is says “Best blue gray paint colors” over the picture?
Caitlyn – That color is Dockside Blue from Sherwin Williams.
Hello, I’m painting my 20 year old son’s bedroom. The room is decent size and there’s just a little white molding around three windows plus 4 white closet doors that basically take up one wall. Medium light brown wood floors and brown furniture complete the picture. I was initially thinking meditative by sherwin Williams but your color suggestions for sherwin seem better. Are Icy and dockside too young for this age? I want a little masculine but not too masculine and am looking at sherwin colors. I don’t want too dark either or it may be too dark in the room. Does it make sense to do an accent wall, am thinking probably not. Thanks!
Beth – I think that both of those colors can work well. I would get samples of both and see which you prefer with the wood. Both are age appropriate. I use those in master bedrooms often.
If trim is a medium cherry color can I paint walls a blue gray color?
Charla Yes, you can, but again probably more towards the bluish side and less toward the grey as it might conflict a bit with the warm cherry tones.
My living room and hallway is painted in darker tan…can I paint bedroom in gray blue?
Yes, bedrooms are set off from the hallway, so it gives you permission to do whatever color you want in the bedrooms. Tan is neutral, so it also works. I’d go more towards the bluer end and less gray though.
Hello, I am 28 years old and my bedroom is currently a sky blue colour. I was thinking of repainting it and installing new flooring as I have to renovate a north/ east facing wall.
Option 1: Install linoleum flooring
(I don’t know which hue to go with: beige/brown, gold/yellow or grey/black)
Option 2: I was thinking of a two-toned wall with:
i) Alfresco by Benjamin Moore on the lower half.
ii) Honey Blush by Sherwin Williams on the top half.
iii) I was thinking of installing a white border wallpaper trim between the two colours.
* I have a very small bedroom and my new queen bed takes up most of the space, I’m talking about a foot to a foot and a half on either side and half a foot at the end of my bed.
Hi Todd. Debbie has a new free guide on selecting paint colors that you may find helpful: https://debbiegartner162.lpages.co/choosing-color/?fbclid=IwAR0u1uV-aeM22FvTArS0DdXC8nl9MGqph32ls32ifErlsvdxsjDlb5mzNHA
Hello….I have an east facing living room. I want to change the accent wall color to a blue gray. The other wall colors are a yellow golden color. Should the blue gray shade be a shade darker than the the yellow golden color? I can provide a photo. Thank you.
I’d say that it’s more important to match the tones so that they work well together. Going a little darker or a little lighter with the blue can work. Blue is a complementary color to yellows/golds so most work well with either other, but you need to visually match. I’d probably go more bluish than grayish, though. I hope that helps.